tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87602396469475176232024-03-05T10:33:18.091-08:00Expatriate Expressanais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-71372668958512196122011-03-22T01:55:00.000-07:002011-03-22T09:09:18.790-07:00春天里的东湖与木兰天池<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUuG1kDZHOttP2viPCCSl-QGfy3LEhAO32ecPc9JZUiC2wh9mU_Kis_S9umyAiwr3vazsPAqA7c96hD1luLlC6l9bGEs7E0kYC43Uj5pJ3Ar82RIZVk26IH-jHGYpSFnCTbfM_GVAr0VKA/s1600/DSC02375.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 240px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 319px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586889953327563874" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUuG1kDZHOttP2viPCCSl-QGfy3LEhAO32ecPc9JZUiC2wh9mU_Kis_S9umyAiwr3vazsPAqA7c96hD1luLlC6l9bGEs7E0kYC43Uj5pJ3Ar82RIZVk26IH-jHGYpSFnCTbfM_GVAr0VKA/s320/DSC02375.JPG" /></a><a 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/></div><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br />忙了两天终于把几张勉强可以拿出来看的照片整理好。在武汉的时间比较长。所以需要整理的照片也比较多一些。对于中国历史和寓言故事不是非常了解的我真的是让大家笑黄了脸。因为我把上海的西湖和武汉的东湖给搞错了。还大声宣言如果朋友要来看白蛇传里的西湖就来武汉找我吧!后来一位白蛇传戏迷的好朋友告诉我,才知道自己给搞错啦。星期天早上我和福瑞德两个人吃完了早餐就出发到武昌。当我们到达东湖的时候就看见人山人海的场面。东湖十分的广阔。很多人在湖面上踩踏着小船欣赏湖的景色而我们就选择步行。 </div><div></div><br /><div><br />这边有很多石头雕塑的人和动物雕像。最重要的是有鲁迅的纪念雕像。我立刻拍下照片留念。这边的雕像都是根据中国古代的寓言故事而雕塑出来。我和福瑞德在和雕像拍了一些无厘头的照片留念。走累了就在湖边坐下来休息。武汉的人十分喜欢野餐。我们看见很多人在草地上坐着一群人在吃东西一边欣赏湖边的风景。因为我们对于武汉市还不是十分熟悉。所以还需要更多的时间去寻宝!嘻嘻!</div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div></div><div></div><div></div><div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6dgjivrvsjMs7_MZBIr4FIBac124mAPEYiNcaK9e1k9Y4gG3I1Bypb7k2FCDwNYNmlhnK8fkrYsUBZS0RS7CyXT5AzkvDT0QaqyaF61V_E8ZTvkGjuuLKfWyZ_2KGMM3s243f9Q_JCDip/s1600/DSC02534.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 201px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 273px; CURSOR: hand" 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/></div><div></div><div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div>翻来翻去找了整个电脑硬盘里的资料,竟然找不到关于木兰天池的草稿。我快发疯了。所以放弃寻找。应该是新的电脑里面没有下载南极之星的软件。所以懒得再找回同样的软件来打开旧的稿。我们是在三月三十一日二零零七年到木兰天池去游玩。这个一日游是由福瑞德的公司举办。我们合租一辆巴士到目的地去。三月的天气微风阵阵十分美好。我们一班人一起乘坐巴士来到木兰天池的时候已经发现又是人山人海的情况。嘻嘻!不过我们还是跟着到处去看一看。原来有很多学生也是办了一日游来这里游玩。我们跟随着人群一路走一路看风景。最佩服的是有两个美媚竟然在这样崎岖不平的路途选择穿上高跟鞋来步行。</div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div><br />原来木兰天池后面还有一座瀑布。这里的水十分清澈,空气也十分新鲜。走到最后我们全部都在山的高处。大家都累了,所以有人提议我们用滑梯溜到山脚下回去。刚开始我还是有点抗拒的感觉。后来,想到既然有一班人陪着我,就应该提起勇气和他们一起滑下去吧!到了山脚下再抬头一看,山上的人更显得细小。所以用滑梯下山的方法的确不错!</div></div></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-446689504211529572010-01-19T07:13:00.000-08:002011-02-21T05:50:07.922-08:00宝宝取经记之坐月婆也会放飞机<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEje0Z9VjiORqVtVNoeZk1MYA30ikgaj3wIqPsBIYR916Qb1eD0FGmE0vKd0cEDtRfv_SItrYKuL8NZOKwCdugEhfvcGyFbGeLTe6JCax6fSfGTD2llH8bme24yTl9eKU8FDEQSTJRt82AJ_/s1600/Pregnant+-+1.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 214px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576139655272136306" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEje0Z9VjiORqVtVNoeZk1MYA30ikgaj3wIqPsBIYR916Qb1eD0FGmE0vKd0cEDtRfv_SItrYKuL8NZOKwCdugEhfvcGyFbGeLTe6JCax6fSfGTD2llH8bme24yTl9eKU8FDEQSTJRt82AJ_/s320/Pregnant+-+1.jpg" /></a><br /><div></div><div>明天开始我肚子里的宝宝已经是八个月大。所以我的心情也开始随着时间快到预产期而感到紧张和迫不及待。现在肚子里的宝宝已经是2.8公斤。可能是混血男孩宝宝所以体重也比一般亚洲宝宝重吧! 前几天我陪伴母亲到朋友亲戚开的一间水晶店去从新串好她的水晶手链。原来店里的老板娘比我还小几岁。但是她的宝宝却刚巧慢我一天预产期。老板娘告诉我们她一直找不到坐月婆因为孩子也是在接近过年之后的那段时间生孩子。几乎问道每个坐月婆开价都是趁火打劫的价钱。所以对于我妈妈能够帮我找到坐月婆这件事,她感到有些惊讶。但是我们找到的坐月婆是妈妈的亲戚。经过一位顾客的介绍才找到。而且对方对于这位坐月婆的评语还不错。但是水晶店的老板娘还是劝我们最好是在二月初再次打个电话和对方确定会在我坐月的日期出现。因为很多坐月婆就算收了订金,也会在最后一分钟临时放飞机不出现。这样对生产后的孕妇真的是热锅上的蚂蚁。 </div><br /><div><br /><br />电话另一边的老公开玩笑的问我为什么需要请坐月婆?他也可以为我做饭。但是男人对于第一次照顾宝宝往往告诉我他们的想象力太简单了。坐月婆必须在我晚上睡觉的时候照顾宝宝。而且还必须为我准备每日三餐的坐月料理。因为我在这一个月里是完全不能够碰水。时间很快就到农历新年了。但是宝宝过了十八号还是不肯出来。在二十号我终于忍不住了,立刻告诉肚子里的宝宝你最好明天立刻给我出来。因为每一天等待的压力是旁人不能够感受到。二月二十一日的早上终于发现宝宝快要出世了。所以我立刻梳洗一番和吃早餐。然后和先生到医院去。等候了一整个早上,终于在下午四点钟阵痛加倍。所以医生立刻帮我接生。傍晚六点钟宝宝终于出世了。过了两天我先出院。过后宝宝因为缺氧和有点黄。所以必须留院三天才出院。<br /><br /><br /></div><br /><p></p><br /><p>结果这位所谓的亲戚坐月婆时常爱请假。还是第一次听到坐月婆一个月内需要请那么多次假期。第一次是迟两天过来,因为难得她的女儿回家。第二次是家里的大伯去世了必须回去帮忙按灵位。第三次是必须回家拜神因为是年初九。最后一次连工作还没做完就想让我给她提前回家。而且煲汤给我还要分一份给她喝。还把手机放在我宝宝的身边播放强劲的音乐听。还好只是一个月坐月的时间。要不然我的忍耐性可没有那么长久。没想到坐月婆的工资那么容易赚。</p><br /><div><br /><br />一年过后又轮到我的嫂嫂生孩子。结果坐月婆临时拿了定金却不来啦。让我妈妈担心急了。就决定找回上一次拒绝让他服务的坐月婆。结果对方更加狠。刚开始工资是两千八。对方狮子开大口说过年价格是不一样。如果要她来做就得付三千二。现在妈妈想吃回头草就得付她三千五。结果妈妈非常生气。最终的决定我也太忙了,也没跟上下文。</div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-17219605199551490632009-12-29T22:13:00.000-08:002011-02-21T05:36:14.560-08:00~ 每逢佳节倍思亲 ~<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3DH0Pc1LLzt0q1Wx3-294YN9kBr_OpyLWV35fjvqZxu4-PpUoZPDpCeilHR4WpLKcikgeOxlTZUAadgd8M_vOvOgt5a_wFBCtWp6ovbQ6LXi1QzusFcCaGJMdtfLvDIoQROaOauFn0Jgj/s1600/DSC03011.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5576134576338008962" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3DH0Pc1LLzt0q1Wx3-294YN9kBr_OpyLWV35fjvqZxu4-PpUoZPDpCeilHR4WpLKcikgeOxlTZUAadgd8M_vOvOgt5a_wFBCtWp6ovbQ6LXi1QzusFcCaGJMdtfLvDIoQROaOauFn0Jgj/s320/DSC03011.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div>去年我终于有机会和家人一起庆祝冬至。感觉一起搓汤圆的气氛特别开心。但是已经有三年没有机会和丈夫一起庆祝圣诞节。因为每一次我们都为了一些办理签证和婚礼的事情而忙碌。想到这样就觉得有点可惜。因为庆祝佳节是让每一个人都感觉特别开心的日子,可以和亲朋戚友聚在一起。前几天和朋友聊天。对方竟然认为圣诞节是给基督教徒庆祝。他不能够明白为什么非基督教徒的人也要庆祝。对方认为是没必要。我也哭笑不得的回答。不管是什么佳节。每一个人都有权利去庆祝和家人朋友聚在一起多开心!非佛教徒的他也庆祝冬至,中秋和农历新年。那未免也太过自相矛盾了吧???哈哈哈哈!!!<br /></div><br /><br /><br /><div>以前当我单身的时候,也时常和一群朋友聚在一起吃饭。不管是孟兰节,开斋节,任何宗教的新年。我们都邀约出来一起吃晚饭。大家聚在一起一边吃饭一边聊天多开心!日子过得很快,一眨眼中秋节又将来到。我人却在离家乡很远的奥地利。只能够又再望着月亮思念家人和朋友。2010 年的中秋节是我儿子第一次庆祝,所以我用喝完的奶粉盒从新做成一个小灯笼让他体验中秋节的感觉. 当天晚上煮了热辣辣的清汤乌冬面来吃. 2010 年的冬至, 我和先生还有儿子三个人在奥地利渡过. 简单的晚餐,速冻芝麻汤圆和宫保鸡丁还有白米饭. 2010年的圣诞节我们还是在奥地利渡过.因为第二天早上我们就出发从意大利边界到法国南部去探望亲朋戚友. </div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div>两个星期来回一共是三千二百公里的旅途.我和宝宝终于病了.我中了呕吐和泻肚子. 回到格拉兹我和先生两个人也感冒了.宝宝在旅途中有些疲累和发烧. 那就是我们中医所谓的水土不服吧! 回到格拉兹时候已经是2011年.过两个星期我们又必须飞往马来西亚渡过华人新年. 期待的心情是兴奋,同时也是紧张.因为我们购买机票的时候, 宝宝的座位已经被完全订购完了.所以我们必须在登机的时候提前到柜台讯问可否安排给我们. 很幸运的我们登机的时候坐在我旁边的是一位台湾同胞。我非常有礼貌的问对方可否和我的先生调换座位。结果对方二话不说立刻说没问题。终于我们有机会坐在一起照顾宝宝的座位。当我们到达马来西亚的时候已经是傍晚七点半。我的好朋友正好公司的办公室搬到机场。所以他答应来接我们。我们匆匆的吃了晚饭就赶回酒店。因为太久没有吃马来西亚热辣辣的椰浆饭。就算是机场里的餐厅已经剩下的一些食物也吃得特别津津有味。</div><br /><br /><div></div><div></div><div></div><br /><div>和旧同学还有老朋友见面两天在吉隆伯,匆匆忙忙的又必须赶飞机回家乡去陪伴家人。今年特别安排和十三年没见的学院宿舍的老同学一起见面。感觉非常愉快!因为大家仿佛都没有改变。我们还是那么关心对方。回到家乡因为天气太热,宝宝半夜醒了几次。我和先生都给宝宝摧残啦!每一天几乎是感觉时间太短暂。有很多事情必须办好。许多亲戚想要看一看宝宝。我心里又拨不急待的希望能够有更多的时间陪伴家人。小妹已经为我列下食物清单希望我能够在这几天里尝到自己好久没有吃到的本地美食。炎热的天气加上排得满满的行程。我们和宝宝都快喊吃不消啦!!!年初一早上我们就到外婆家去拜年。外婆已经七十多岁了,最近开始健忘。以前的事情就记得一清二楚。现在的事情就记忆模糊。</div><br /><br /><div></div><div></div><div></div><br /><div>新年期间我们到妈妈的舅舅家去拜年。老舅舅的女儿最拿手就是做糕饼。老舅母最拿手的就是拉萨汤面。让我们吃了垂延三尺,每一年我们都到他们的家去拜年。然后又到爸爸的舅舅家拜年。老舅早在几年前去世死因悲惨。现在剩下老舅母一个人和孩子们相依为命。老舅母最爱吃妈妈煮的咖喱鸡。他们家是卖鸡鸭为生。所以每年我们向他们订购鸡鸭时候,妈妈就会下厨为老舅母煮美味可口的咖喱鸡。但是过程就非常劳累。因为必须准备除夕早饭和晚饭,然后必须从晚上才开始煮好咖喱鸡。煮完的时候已经是三更半夜。让我有点不忍心的向妈妈开玩笑的说,今年的咖喱鸡失点水准吧。。。明年就不用那么劳累啦。。。</div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><div></div><div></div><div>终于宝宝在回去奥地利那天发烧了。爸爸和妈妈也来送机。小妹和我们乘搭同一班机回吉隆伯。我们还必须在吉隆伯转机到奥地利。三次的转机才能够到达奥地利。小妹在吉隆伯和我们道别的时候开始眼眶泪水盈盈的勉强微笑。宝宝和小阿姨两个人依依不舍的道别了几次。宝宝和我们终于在法兰克福特等候转机的时候疲惫不堪。三个人在机场里的等候厅半打瞌睡的等候转机。到达格拉兹的时候,我们还必须将储存在车库的行李和日常用品搬回公寓整理。在下午五点钟,我和宝宝在等候孩子的爸爸从超市买晚餐的食料时候睡着了。。。我的先生也因为太累所以我们连晚饭都没吃就睡着啦。。。第二天才发现自己为了挂念家人。结果把妈妈厨房里的一个小饭碗带回格拉兹。看见饭碗犹如听见妈妈的叮咛。让我更加想念家人。</div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-51308240248262699402009-11-20T07:42:00.000-08:002009-11-20T08:43:47.184-08:00re: 宝宝取经记之我是医生。。。最近因为怀孕了,所以听见更多坊间传说的一些野生的药草和植物可以医治某些病例。或者是某些人说很多人抢着要这些植物拿回家自己种植。问了妈妈那个告诉您的人是做那一份工作?哦!对方是在保险公司上班的。那么他何来的医学证明书保证他说的话可以付任何责任?坊间就是有太多这种人学会三脚猫功夫就在外面夸大其辞的与人们分享他们一些没有医学证明的药方。自己当起医生啦!<br /><br />最近我的弟弟就是因为工作出差而在某位顾客还没建好的楼房踩空而从九尺高的地方跌伤了。所以家人立刻带他到医院去照X光。出来的结果我们全家人认为还是必须到槟城一家更大的专科医院去做进一步更加详细的检查。因为我们家乡小市镇的医生给我们的答复是十分含糊和不确定。但是因为这种伤势不适合继续去做一些长途劳累的旅途。所以我们决定让弟弟在家里休息几天再去看医生。<br /><br />隔两天嫂子就带着弟弟到一家我们时常去看的中医铁打师傅去让他为弟弟看一看伤势。所以对方就立刻开始他那一套先吓唬病人。让他们乖乖的会再回来让他推拿。他立刻拿出他那残旧的白光灯的箱子来看我弟弟的X光片。然后又夸张的说还好他快一点来给他推拿。要不然长久时间肯定会半身不遂。此话吓坏了嫂子。因为她已经对弟弟的意外事件劳碌了几天。精神也并不十分的好,加上睡眠不足。听见了这种消息肯定当真的听进耳里去啦。我敢以人头担保这位中医师更本没有看X光片的经验或者是文凭。也不是什么再世华佗。所以不应该利用病人的担忧之心来赚取他们的钱而睁眼说瞎话。<br /><br />今天同一天我和家人陪伴妈妈到槟城做身体检查。弟弟也在附近的另一家医院见了医生。医生看了X光片并告诉他,骨盆并没有跌歪了。星期一必须再来照X光。因为腰部被瘀青遮盖住,必须等瘀散了才能够再照。<br /><br />另外一件事就是最怕和一些妈妈们讨论他们的生产经验。因为每个人的体质不一样。生产宝宝时候的状况也不一样。所以,她们并不可以拿她们的经验来告诉其他妈妈们那一位医生比较好。那一位医生不好。或者在哪一国生孩子比较好。如果每个妈妈可以选择,她们肯定也不想冒险。而且每一个妈妈生宝宝都是在与生命搏斗去迎接另一个新生命来临到这个世界。她们并不想听见女朋友们告诉她们一些负面的消息。让她们更加压力。而且人传人的口碑到最后也不知道谁是谁非啦!最好是以自己的判断力,加上和自己的妇产科医生多一些沟通。以防有什么误解的地方,也可以让自己更加了解生产的状况。<br /><br />最好笑的是家乡的女朋友竟然告诉我,某位她的女朋友因为生第一胎。所以家里的人特别紧张。每个月都带她去产检。结果就因为时常做3D或者是4D的操音波检查而流产。听完之后让我哭笑不得。通常流产的状况是胎儿不稳,怀孕的妈妈体质较弱,或者是太过劳累和压力而流产。从来没有听过孕妇做了噪音波检查之后会流产。这样子难道每个妈妈都不可以做噪音波稍描了?那么怎么确定宝宝在肚子里是健全的呢???<br /><br />才回来一个月就这么多经可以取啦!如果还有什么最新的CMM频道最新的消息,我将会在这里和大家分享与报告。哈哈哈哈哈!!!anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-12290825138453939162009-11-20T06:29:00.000-08:002009-11-20T07:41:24.628-08:00re : 宝宝取经记之渐渐脱节。。。感觉上越来越和家乡的一切生活方式都脱了节。。。今天接到老同学打来的一通电话。耳边传来熟悉的声音。是一位中学同学在电话里责怪我为什么回到家乡也没有和好朋友联络和见面。今天的我在早上六点钟就和家人出发到槟城去陪伴妈妈做妇科身体检查。在高速公路上消耗了将近两个小时才到医院。然后又必须等候三个小时的检查手续才可以拿到报告。<br /><br />接着又匆匆的赶到附近唯一可以购买到外国婴儿用品的专卖店去买好婴儿的必需品和药材店买一些补品。之后又匆匆的赶回家和先生在网上连线。从早忙到晚连休息的时间都没有。哪来的时间可以安乐享受和好朋友约会碰面的时间???我一生人最讨厌就是妇人之见!没有体谅他人也有繁忙的生活,而一味的抱怨为什么人家就是不能办到他们所期待的事情。<br /><br />所以我就开始最让我疲惫的讲座课程。让这位好朋友明白。她也是两个孩子的妈妈。应该了解婚姻生活是会无时无刻的忙碌。特别是每一个人的家庭状况不一样。我怀的是第一胎的孩子。经过十二个小时的长途飞机与气压,造成我的肚子非常的疼痛。然后又是时差的情况,让我难以取得很好的睡眠时间。回到家乡又要面对天气的转变。从四度到三十五度以上的转变。还有一大堆的银行和政府的文件需要我去翻新和询问。以防宝宝一出世的时候手忙脚乱。难道这些事情都需要我一一的向全世界报告吗???<br /><br />后来我再也理会不了对方到底明白我所要传达的讯息与否。只是我自己觉得这样子交朋友实在是太累了。。。最让我抓狂的是当我问及到底是谁告诉她这个消息的时候。她又在电话一旁扭扭捏捏的说有人啦。。。有人啦。。。既然不是你的弟弟那你猜一猜还会是谁呢??? 最讨厌这种小女人的讲话方式。当然我也猜到就是她的先生和我叔叔有生意来往。然后就这样子八卦回来的消息。为什么就是不能够坦荡荡的告诉我???还要我重复的问了三次呢???<br /><br />我家隔壁就已经有一大堆类同的亲戚让我每一天活在水深火热的状况。偶尔耳朵还必须听他们如何尖酸刻薄的批评和讨论亲戚之间的生活态度。不想听他们还是会理所当然的走到你家门口敲门拜访。完全没有理会你是在忙碌与否。完全是处于我想来你家说是非就来你家说是非的境界。哈哈哈哈哈哈!!!老同学还问我会让孩子做马来西亚的公民还是法国公民??? 我当然以小孩子将来念书为借口来应付这种问题。我当然一万个不愿意让我的孩子在这种生活方式的环境长大!!!并不是说我歧视马来西亚的一切。而是我不想让孩子在这种思想里成长。希望他能够到外面的世界去看一看。学习独立的生活和了解到生活里除了八卦。还有很多更有意义的事情等着你去做和学习。anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-79169256494208868362009-10-02T05:52:00.000-07:002011-03-16T07:13:01.366-07:00呼叫中心的恋人<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhP0pzMfTkOkcU23O8OVukbXLN29kJjr1rBLhg_imPRU-WBfxAVGey_L2mEb1IzErDtRY1YtJg-cMJ1bzownpFFpyYo4HnMsvLC10E8gE2g5BUhEi3QB6-uOCeTyu3IFkRAu4KckUn6cVFg/s1600/Heart+-+2.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 215px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5584680106471148994" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhP0pzMfTkOkcU23O8OVukbXLN29kJjr1rBLhg_imPRU-WBfxAVGey_L2mEb1IzErDtRY1YtJg-cMJ1bzownpFFpyYo4HnMsvLC10E8gE2g5BUhEi3QB6-uOCeTyu3IFkRAu4KckUn6cVFg/s320/Heart+-+2.JPG" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><p>二十好几的时候每当看了日剧之后就会泪流满脸。为剧情里男女主角的悲情而感动。但是当自己到了三十好几的时候,再回看一些年轻人的爱情日剧的时候就会无奈的为自己当年对爱情单纯的想法而笑了。笑的是当年自己的执著。笑的是当年自己的傻劲。不管多年以后,我还是认为恋爱是个很好的经验,也是让我们成长的事情。不管多年的跌跌撞撞,我还是不肯放弃这个想法。就是,每个人上天一定会为他们安排好一个适合他们的伴侣。只是天时地利人和。在对的时候当你遇见所爱的人,心中会感叹是如此的美好吗?一切都是真的吗?拍一拍自己的脸颊。一切都不是在做梦。嘻嘻! </p><br /><p><br />2011年二月二十日,竟然有位好朋友在MSN上面告诉我一个让我感到惊讶的消息。我的旧男朋友竟然回来马来西亚工作而刚好和我的女朋友妹妹的男朋友住同一座公寓。然后碰见我的女朋友向对方问起我的电话号码。我的女朋友也很狠的回答他失去联系号码了。然后对方就说有空一起出来喝咖啡来结束话题。过了四年的旧感情。对方应该是淡忘了吧。。。为什么会无端端回来马来西亚工作?当初对方就是一直以会长久居住在马来西亚来肯定我们的关系。到后来纸包不住火,终于说出来必须回去继续留学。所有的借口就让他自己说个够吧。就算现在的我如果仍是单身,我也不会吃回头草!<br /></p><br /><p><br />很多年轻的妹妹们每一天都在发着嫁给老外特别富有的白日梦而搞到头昏了。外国的月亮也不过如此。不管在哪一个国家都有穷人和富有的人。就算是老外也有穷与富。最重要的是找到可以和你同甘共苦的伴侣。我身边的女朋友就有几个认为老外就是富有。现在有很多老外都是来亚洲出差。而逗留的时间通常不会太长。毕竟不是自己的国家,公司的合约期也有限。所以他们喜欢到网上和夜店去寻找这些妹妹们来解闷。合约到期就排排屁股走人。看见那些妹妹们有机会和那些老外拍照片留念就洋洋得意的放在网上让朋友观看。谁知这些老外在想我们这些亚洲的妹妹们那么容易就感到满足。</p><br /><p><br /><br />最近有一位法国好朋友和她的丈夫在一起来往和同居一共有八年多。终于在生了三个女儿之后宣布正式结婚啦!我真的为她感到非常高兴!这个是在我和我先生在一起拍拖之前就知道在法国有很多对夫妇签的都是同居证。并非是结婚证书。在我们其他国家来说可能是不合法的。甚至于是破坏社会规则的行为吧。在我的家庭里更加是一件属于耻辱的事情。感觉上是女儿嫁不出去,而且还得和自己的爱人买大床贴嫁妆。当然这些事情我是和先生结婚之后才告诉父母亲在他们的国家是有这种同居自由的做法。事先声明我们是正式结婚签纸,以免他们老人家担心。我和福瑞德的情况不一样。因为他的工作时常到处跑。所以我们必须以合法的身份来进入其他国家。方便我们准备文件,也让孩子出世之后把政府部门的文件准备好。不然到了其他国家申请居留证的时候简直是有理说不清。<br /></p><br /><p><br />但是现在的社会已经是很普及化的事情。到处都有同居的伴侣在一起生活到老。总而言之,在错的地方遇见不对的人,当然怎么在一起也不能够长久。能够遇见我的先生已经算是一件稀有品种的事实!嘻嘻!!! 但事实上没有水的味道永远是一样的。随着你去的地方不同,水的味道也不同。根据你当天的体质和心情,水也会变甜或变涩。人生和矿泉水不一样。不管怎么计算都会有意外。但是碰壁受伤不就是活着的意义吗?人生不可能随心所欲。正因为如此。。。请继续好好活下去。</p>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-41565031728105117142009-04-28T12:56:00.000-07:002009-05-12T07:54:25.247-07:00~ Snow in Wuhan 2006 ~<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsraKJIsT66OnW_T3h3B62roognis82B4jIjBpoMFaC0MeFrchVrPH8dI08uGK8QmuBjfev9M7XXGM6rd6Nr-8iAZegoOKXTCBBrZ5f8dV39FTtW92nUtnpkSfuMBFk6Wewhuzjouh74nF/s1600-h/DSC02825.JPG"></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGZ6P3aDnXuIECjRYMH7-vLGdyhpes4enU_rZ2DqFjNL2nbVbg_xg4gVGKvrqOsmoPkZt2sKRxcDdo9jMZ8Nf5dophBGBTYL0mHOdR8jpVTGcR1DLuKOblyJdb9qwOJK2FtYP5hp3xMHBl/s1600-h/DSC02823.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329840662070093874" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 122px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 187px" alt="" 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Also the worst winter that causing everyone having a bad situation for celebrating Chinese new year. The snow is so thick and destroy some old roofs of the poor people houses. The ice are too heavy on the roof that is causing it collapsed. The trains and the planes had been stop moving or flying out from Wuhan. Mainly the two bridges that crossing over in between Han Yang, Han Kou and Wu Chang had been closed down due to the bad weather. The heater in every house is not working due to the snow had frozen the heater engine. The heater mechanic can't cross over the bridge from Han Kou to reach our apartment for service the heater. It took him few days and finally get it settle. But the isolation of the balcony window is very poor. So it seems like the heater is not warm enough to keep the temperature higher in our apartment. That's also because our apartment is the top floor and have high ceiling. The train has stop moving cause of no electric. Some of the vehicles on the highway were stucked on the road and have to stop there without food or water supply. Nobody expect this would have happen before new year. </div><br /><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>So guess what were I used to keep me warm while the heater is not working at home? Well the portable heater from carrefour and the microwave fan heater that feeling like burning my skin whenever it was turning and facing me. I had covered myself up with the blanket together with the portable heater next to my couch so that it could keep my half body warm at least. The gas stove is not working for cooking either. So I am using the electric rice cooker to cook something simple to keep us warm. It's been few months I had been worrying the flight that we had booked to go back Malaysia for Chinese New Year would turn out not going to happen. Luckily the day we fly in the early morning the sky finally become sunny and beautiful. I really can't believe it. But some of the flights schedules still in waiting list. A lot of passengers yelling and complaining at the service counter. My heart is finally less stressed once we reached Shen Zhen to catch up our transit flight to Kuala Lumpur...</div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><div></div><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Feeling so great finally reached back home to Malaysia. But then the custom police woman is throwing me a funny question. Why are you coming back to Malaysia??? Hmmm....because I am Malaysian and I am coming back to celebrate Chinese New Year with my family??? </div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div><br /></div><br /><div></div><br /><div><br /></div><br /><div></div></div></div></div></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-14015304337664574052009-04-28T12:20:00.000-07:002009-04-28T12:55:46.995-07:00~ To move or not To move ~<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0b-asqzRaInIDc-OtvFD3GHcrbSt1Y3Ea_TFKtcJemqRz2Kw1F3B5QG-NnjO8eaWr-Q4RYBxLxa3sHk5m_v5jC4bDOb-yctZSIQyNMff2b4Gme9qhvKlpeeDEpakBT_OBgxLbwbPGLbUX/s1600-h/cycling.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329830296616074946" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0b-asqzRaInIDc-OtvFD3GHcrbSt1Y3Ea_TFKtcJemqRz2Kw1F3B5QG-NnjO8eaWr-Q4RYBxLxa3sHk5m_v5jC4bDOb-yctZSIQyNMff2b4Gme9qhvKlpeeDEpakBT_OBgxLbwbPGLbUX/s320/cycling.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />Guess I had been lazy ever since I moved out from Malaysia. It's been 2 years I didn't move my ass from the chair besides doing the housework or seeing some friends out there. Anyway I have barely going out to spend some time with the friends I know wherever I moved. 3 weeks ago I had twisted my back muscles again. This is the second time I had hurted my back including last year december when I was going back to Malaysia. But this time it is totally a disaster! I can't even stand straight nor walk as fast as I could. I can't even sleep well nor sit in the car without yelling for the muscles is stretching that make the pain on my back even worst.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Well that makes me finally stop being so stubborn and moving my ass from the chair in front of the laptop and do my stretching exercise. I can't believe it!!! Which is I can't even touch the floor anymore. The hand was 5 inches away from the ground!!! C'est pas possible!!! Took me a while and finally have my fingers touch to the floor. The next morning I am feeling the muscles pain on my both legs. Ok so I am trying to motivate myself with few plans...here there are:<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />1) stop playing games on the internet.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />2) every morning before lunch make some stretching exercise before start to cook my lunch.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />3) getting a bicycle in May and start my cycling exercise in the park nearby the apartment.<br /><br /><br /><br />I really hope by putting all my efforts on these plans could really makes my health improve better and no more pain on my body...anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-23722778351028460752009-04-21T11:24:00.000-07:002009-04-24T11:53:30.372-07:00~ 工作 ~<div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">工作:干活 并以此谋生。</span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span><br /> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">Q.: 对你来说...工作是什么?</span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">工作这个字......拆解开来就是人在动.......</span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">即使犹豫......犹豫......还是要不停的动。</span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span> </div><div align="center"> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">Hataraki Man</span></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-46236884090000393292009-04-06T07:40:00.000-07:002009-08-20T07:20:09.493-07:00CPR<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzVXlMEOgFZVjtiBqzTD2-A4zVd5kSfIpuY0uvSXxLHjKJ0ECUQwr0CQMKtYugGXtYlVrLMD9y5EpFM_pDUDLQX5xscKOvzOMJHXPM0bQosOwG8qmY8HtFAvC7MrVLZciCX3oMp3XSNgpr/s1600-h/cpr.gif"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 228px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 193px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321659250411830898" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzVXlMEOgFZVjtiBqzTD2-A4zVd5kSfIpuY0uvSXxLHjKJ0ECUQwr0CQMKtYugGXtYlVrLMD9y5EpFM_pDUDLQX5xscKOvzOMJHXPM0bQosOwG8qmY8HtFAvC7MrVLZciCX3oMp3XSNgpr/s320/cpr.gif" /></a><br /><br /><div>四月四日,早上七点钟就开始起身准备好自己。然后开始走到麦当劳楼上的课室去上课。今天上的是:急救课程。嘻嘻!在德国申请驾驶执照是必须上急救课程。所以,福瑞德就陪伴着我当了半天的德语翻译员。当然来上课的全部都是十五至十八岁的小孩子。我们上的课程是如何包扎伤口,做人工呼吸和按压心脏。还有怎样将受伤昏迷不醒的伤者从车子里面搬出来,脱下机车安全帽和安顿好在地上。上课的时候是一件十分有趣和搞笑的过程。不过想一想。。。如果有一天事情发生在自己眼前的时候。不知道还能否如此镇定。。。? </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>记得二零零七年十月一日在马来西亚。那并不是什么黄道吉日。我和福瑞德刚刚游玩过金马仑高原。我们本来打算从前面的山路回家。但是福瑞德看了看地图的路线,觉得想要看一看马来西亚的郊外热带风景。他一定是疯了。。。所以我们就从后山路驾驶了一段时间。突然间我们看见空荡荡的高速公路有一两PAJERO车子翻倒到路边的大沟渠。刚开始我是劝他确定那是不是个恶作剧才从车子里走出来。</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>后来他看见的是一家人都受伤的躺在车子里面完全没有戴上安全带。沟渠下面还有一个六七岁大的男孩躺在下面,额头被割伤。车子里面有一个中年男人和一个老年人。还有一个满身是血的少女。福瑞德二话不说立刻将这位女子从车子里搬出来放在草地上。然后立刻将车底下的小男孩也搬出来。我立刻从后车厢拿出一些毛巾还有一瓶矿泉水让他们洗伤口。女孩的爸爸歇斯底里的跑道我的面前大喊阿拉真主!!!求求你救一救我的孩子!!!阿拉真主!!!阿拉真主!!!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>要不是他在歇斯底里的叫喊着,我还可以很镇定地处理这件事情。但是当我开始看见那满身是血的女孩,我也跟着激动的哭了出来。福瑞德叫我在车里面等候。原因是我们的车子太小了。他们一共是一家五口人。我的KENARI載满了行李。高速公路上没有任何车子经过。因为这是刚刚建好的高速公路。我们又不熟悉这边的路线,担心的是我们在找寻医院的时候延迟了救人的时间。而且这里又接不到任何电话讯号。</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>我们车子往前驾驶找到附近有一间非常简陋的杂货店。问他们有没有电话可以求救。但是对方说没有。所以我们又驾驶前往十多公里就会有电话讯号了。天啊!我们只好立刻将车子驾驶快速到达有讯号的地点开始报警。后来我们回到原地的时候伤者们全都不见了。估计应该是我们离开寻找求救的方法时候正好有人经过救了他们。所以我们又开始继续我们的旅途。经过了这个突来的车祸,我们两个人的心情十分难过。因为不知道这一家人的命运将会如何。。。那满身是血的女孩是否救得活??? </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>当我们看车里的时钟,如果要经过KOTA BAHRU看一看海滩的时间已经来不及了。因为我们还必须赶回家和家人吃晚饭。所以就只是跟着福瑞德的计划从郊外小区的路回家乡。因为马来西亚的郊外风景是没有加油站和休息站。所谓的mamak档也是铺满灰尘的空档口。所以好奇的福瑞德终于明白这一点也不好玩。我们开始在GRIK附近的郊区穿梭回高速公路回家乡去。今天的天气并不是很好。傍晚时分郊区里面开始下雨,沿路都是雨雾。所以我们也十分小心翼翼的驾驶回家。回到家里才开始感觉温暖许多。。。 </div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-8340672740381429822009-03-25T09:52:00.000-07:002009-04-24T11:52:11.825-07:00~ 家人 ~<div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">家人......一同生活 患难与共的人......</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">Q : 对你来说家人意味着什么? </span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;"></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">在我心里所谓的家人,即使不能一桌吃饭。即使相隔遥远,也割不断那份心的牵绊。</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">Hataraki Man</span></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-12827828341668778802009-03-24T10:58:00.000-07:002009-04-24T11:51:31.560-07:00~ 后悔 ~<div align="center"><span style="color:#ffcccc;">后悔... 事后懊悔...<br /><br /><br />Q :你正过着无悔的每一天吗?<br /><br /><br />公寓不是单纯的建筑物。它是居住者人生的写照。因此,购买公寓就是在购买能无忧无虑度过今后人生的地方。而建造公寓或许就是在创造住在那里的人们的[未来]。创造和心爱的人一起幸福度过的[未来]。<br /><br />已经过去的事,后悔也无济於事。但是,胜於察觉不到自己不断后悔的生活方式而活着。因为从那又可以载入新的开端。后悔并不是件坏事。但为了让明天不再后悔,就要好好活出今天!<br /><br /><br />Hataraki Man</span></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-90511780026959546682009-03-23T12:35:00.000-07:002009-04-28T12:18:34.649-07:00The Frogs & The Music Speakers<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidGZKhBy76YXohQu9iuITsewJ99atDwBIuW6lk0WpFiWHqvSe5Pqee7Mb4ighG9JMTrCmHtWpPp6SoAP5pZJYmJ1ekjngMjgi5O1WRYj9PLJ8vGzomitg8XCLaitBuqUzq4Ei_zbaTLwkm/s1600-h/DSCF0014.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316470824740121058" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 161px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 189px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidGZKhBy76YXohQu9iuITsewJ99atDwBIuW6lk0WpFiWHqvSe5Pqee7Mb4ighG9JMTrCmHtWpPp6SoAP5pZJYmJ1ekjngMjgi5O1WRYj9PLJ8vGzomitg8XCLaitBuqUzq4Ei_zbaTLwkm/s320/DSCF0014.JPG" border="0" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEZ49FbDvUSGQgFCMUTHXHGyYFfa66dQ90U0eJz9cCvOKG3ocp5AqToPa2g5AxItkjDVb60vNKdGJbKtIKvFIAdpv1PnZ-HwOZN5_a8nfu0FAPBa0NaZigFrs-H2FSmqns3bMaDjHJfMXU/s1600-h/DSC01513.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316470817207177090" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 155px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 189px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEZ49FbDvUSGQgFCMUTHXHGyYFfa66dQ90U0eJz9cCvOKG3ocp5AqToPa2g5AxItkjDVb60vNKdGJbKtIKvFIAdpv1PnZ-HwOZN5_a8nfu0FAPBa0NaZigFrs-H2FSmqns3bMaDjHJfMXU/s320/DSC01513.JPG" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiK51HhWanRTtCctfV-OXw4jzgCvITUVh4qm66N2czK8H_T4fpv_KS_N34FJPIvqxywO86f_wA7Q7YTBFk_EjqElYl67saLYVoaicZC8yLRR5UQDAJreOdJwEow1UHhh0q95IkwYgw9FkJx/s1600-h/DSC01511.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316470810390015346" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 152px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 190px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiK51HhWanRTtCctfV-OXw4jzgCvITUVh4qm66N2czK8H_T4fpv_KS_N34FJPIvqxywO86f_wA7Q7YTBFk_EjqElYl67saLYVoaicZC8yLRR5UQDAJreOdJwEow1UHhh0q95IkwYgw9FkJx/s320/DSC01511.JPG" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUY6Jkabvy-QCMH_HzVoh-EU5xYG1Vv7Up4wH936mDu8Pon8XBRke2h58gIOtI-J8jfrPOBzA0Th2JZPuG7mSroUo70tTrCCs4KWZwUdVK4eW2Q7CbCAMfQF2Hmaw5GNOeP2cfYyl9qwdu/s1600-h/DSC01533.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316470818891990834" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 158px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 190px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUY6Jkabvy-QCMH_HzVoh-EU5xYG1Vv7Up4wH936mDu8Pon8XBRke2h58gIOtI-J8jfrPOBzA0Th2JZPuG7mSroUo70tTrCCs4KWZwUdVK4eW2Q7CbCAMfQF2Hmaw5GNOeP2cfYyl9qwdu/s320/DSC01533.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrX5nxP7ZSVQGn74_BPAOblE1cSl1DQaEsYilTt_FvkAAsmTzw6Zx9Q38gK2WxjDgZSOcreBFCsZxc7j4fFrgjnNmsheqM2Y9vOPlq1ZtS2CDSNTJL0tqOs1w4ziBhwXKrh5W14jc5gPyl/s1600-h/DSCF0012.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316470832886095698" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 170px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 222px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrX5nxP7ZSVQGn74_BPAOblE1cSl1DQaEsYilTt_FvkAAsmTzw6Zx9Q38gK2WxjDgZSOcreBFCsZxc7j4fFrgjnNmsheqM2Y9vOPlq1ZtS2CDSNTJL0tqOs1w4ziBhwXKrh5W14jc5gPyl/s320/DSCF0012.JPG" border="0" /></a>Suddenly I misses the life in Wuhan, China. Where the apartment is extra bigger space than the one we are living here. It seems to be a little bit too big for a couple to live in this apt. The isolation is not so strong. So you can feel the cold wind comes inside through the gap between the balcony windows. But the sounds of the frogs making sounds at night is making you feeling like living in the middle of the jungle close to the nature kind of feeling. In the morning you can hear the neighbour talking loud with the mobile phone. People walking out through the walkway of the apartment area. There are some neighbourhood going out to work or supermarket to buy some food to cook for meals. There are speakers on the grass everywhere outside the apartment area playing some China pop songs. </div><div><br /><br /></div><div></div><div><br /></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div><br /></div><div>Usually the condominium or apartment area in Malaysia means one or two blocks under the same company management. But in Wuhan, China the apartment area under one company management is huge. It's more than 20 or 30 blocks like a big living areas for everyone. So for the children playground also have few of it separate in each area. Some people are riding bicycles ,scooters or cars to go inside their apartment. Some of them are walking by foots or taking buses. The bus station is 200meters away by walking distance from the entrance of the apartment guard house. In the evening you can see people doing some traditional dance as an exercise. Some of them are doing the open air karaoke at the streetside or outside of the shopping mall area. There are some who like to play the small chinese drum as well. People that living in Wuhan seems to enjoy their life with noise and crowds. It seems like they don't know the difference between sounds pollution and sounds for joyful at the right time. There was once I went to the management office to ask about the speaker that always playing musics outside the apartment areas. Is it possible to get rid of it because it is really bothering people with this kind of sounds pollution. Especially when it's not the kind of music you would appreciate to listen all the days. </div><div></div><div></div><div><br /></div><div></div><br /><div><br /></div><div></div><div><br /><br /></div><div>Then I saw an old woman come to the management office to complain about the noise from the frogs in the pond are making every night. It's disturbing her sleep. She would appreciate if the management could send some workers to kill all the frogs or move it away from the pond. Oh gosh! But don't she understand these frogs come from nature and these sounds are not pollution compare to the speaker of musics outside the apartment area...Hmmm.... Another time our new neighbour who is living downstairs playing the music so loud downstairs during midnight in their apartment while everybody is sleeping. Frederic and I can't sleep at all. Finally Frederic went downstairs to knock at his door for 3 times. Then only he came to open the door. Frederic was asking him if he knows what time is it now and everybody needs to sleep and work tomorrow early morning. Then he kept on saying sorry sorry sorry and turn the music off. </div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div>But life is so much lively there...always full of excitement and adventurous. You could experienced something that you could never see in the big city life. You could also understand more about the big difference of the poor and the rich people that are living in Wuhan, China. Everyday I had seen something new and interesting there. It's an unregrettable life to live in China! </div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-87599170572250560642009-03-18T12:32:00.000-07:002009-04-28T12:19:15.800-07:00re: I had been Isolated<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMcVy5dsYhPkRm0fAvJyCzcOW-sYyezc8tKxXCuf6fE7ZSjNaGK_VRFAWNPzPxvH3maaNfQCFASjLhJs4g4R3DASHTbE7YhQSEKOCBeFtR4FTzJZeWP6pArQ5cGGmggMoFEIa_iUQLS-NH/s1600-h/P3040001.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316446427082273746" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMcVy5dsYhPkRm0fAvJyCzcOW-sYyezc8tKxXCuf6fE7ZSjNaGK_VRFAWNPzPxvH3maaNfQCFASjLhJs4g4R3DASHTbE7YhQSEKOCBeFtR4FTzJZeWP6pArQ5cGGmggMoFEIa_iUQLS-NH/s320/P3040001.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div>A friend of mine in Malaysia was wondering why I am missing in action...Actually I guess ever since I am moving to europe my life become isolated. Everything is expensive here. Besides keeping in touch with friends in Malaysia with internet. I guess the rest of the time I could hardly make a phone call to them...Another matter is to make a new friend surprisingly turns out that it's not as easy as I thought so...It's the matter of different cultures and lifestyles that cause people have distance and not so open to everything as I unexpected. Another thing is language matter. A lot of people insist to speak their own language but not English or a common language that everyone could understand well when hanging out together. Or insist to joke in their country way which nobody understand but themselves. I guess it's the matter of their own egoist that makes people do not want to tolerant and make a compromise to make friends with other races people...</div><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><div>As a Malaysian that born in 3 races country. We learnt to be tolerant and try to speak the same language when we gather out 3 races of friends for hanging out together in public. I enjoy this kind of lifestyles...Going out to food stall until midnight 2am...have a cup or tea with friends and chit chat or gossip some fun things happen in our life lately. Shopping mall open 7 days in a week. There is a 7.11 where you could always grabbed some food or daily use products 24 hours. The weather always either rainy or sunny. If you are getting bored, there are always some affordable price local airlines companies for you to fly to any islands in Malaysia just for a short holiday at the sunny beach. </div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Now the tropical woman like me had moved to a 4 seasons country Germany. First the cold and gloomy long winter is making me depressed. Secondly it's not only the weather is cold but the people also cold as their winter. I am trying to join myself with some expatriate community group for dining and hanging out together in downtown. But I found out it was just a bunch of bla bla bla social friends. Everyone is just searching for a bunch of community to slot in their free time like the toothpick... So I stop going there... I started to get myself isolated....staying at home doing some sketches and writing my blogs. </div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Sometimes I go out to have a walk alone by myself. Things are expensive here...so what you can do is more about free charges activities. Such as walking in the park, cycling in the cold winter time which is not funny for me who came from 30 degree hot temprature country person. Sometimes when the sun is coming out for a while could be sitting at the cafe to have the 2 euros coffee. If it happen to be some events on the empty market place, then it will be great to have a hot german sausages with their gluh wine ( hot wine ) out there during christmas market. I can't wait for the spring or summer to come as soon as possible...At least there will be more events out there the empty market place close to where I am living...By that time I could enjoy a little bit the warmer sunny weather for a moment that would be nice!!!</div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-14990718032037963232009-03-05T05:21:00.000-08:002009-04-28T12:20:19.817-07:00Always Brothers & Sisters<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL9V5GjfBtZow42F6cwM_CIvtzUCLx0X2RC9Wvzh7GcmwYOAmsKEsSiOLBQ_hyphenhyphen0CR_7SR3IdSUYIIk5yE5UG286L_E4-oEaePSZd1scRBwPW8fXOAM0PW_tpPDB8V9NOeYejBHZu548nP2/s1600-h/IMG_0008.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311590243151374578" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 282px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL9V5GjfBtZow42F6cwM_CIvtzUCLx0X2RC9Wvzh7GcmwYOAmsKEsSiOLBQ_hyphenhyphen0CR_7SR3IdSUYIIk5yE5UG286L_E4-oEaePSZd1scRBwPW8fXOAM0PW_tpPDB8V9NOeYejBHZu548nP2/s400/IMG_0008.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br />As I am stuck in between the women who is yet don't want to be single and to be a mom so soon. I wonder what's the difference between the to be moms and single ladies out there...A single gf of mine just told me that she missed the time we both always have so many things to talk about when we are together. I wonder what's making her have doubts in things had changed? Yes things are changing a lot...I am moving out of Malaysia. I am no longer single. I've just got married. I am in between the border of wondering should I be a to be mom so soon? Or should I stay in the situation of two persons life for a while? Yet she is still single and having a great night life and working out the best in her carrier. But I guess that won't change the topic of conversation we used to have.<br /><br /><br /><br />The truth is I am getting tired with the kind of life that people always staying single and never get to know person sleeping next to them in their bed most of the time. Clubbing night life makes me getting older day by day with those alchohol and smokes around us. I start to prefer the kind of life with a house and someone who I could spend time and get to know him better. Everyday when I wake up in the early morning someone who could make a cup of hot tea for my breakfast. Someone who would share my life with me and a shoulder to lean on without need to think twice if I am disturbing them during midnight.<br /><br /><br /><br />Of course I missed the time I am with my sister or girl friends. As we always fighting and arguing for different kind of thoughts we have in our mind for loving each other in different ways that we couldn't understand each other so much either. Hehehe...Yet we are loving each other too much. Still remember when we were little. It always happen that I can't find my books or stationary. The thought is always the little sister took it. Always blaming on her and upset about the punishment that I have to get in school because of her. She always showing the small little cute innocent face deny for what she had done and can't remember about it. Hehehe...<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Now we are all growing up and living far from each other. Miss the sunny weather in Malaysia just like the old picture we had taken. All of us can't even open our eyes at all... The little sister who is wearing red feathers on her hair and white panty with the t-shirt and sandals. Can't imagine she just came out to the park just wearing like that to take photo with us. She look like a tiny little mighty mouse from the cartoon. Just like how she is now. Strong and brave yet innocent. Hahahaha!!! My beloved cousin who is wearing the pink dress next to me is now living in UK for studying. Soon she will be back to Malaysia after graduate. I will miss her a lot too. The sisterhood keeps a great memory in our life. Oh can't miss out my little bro who is standing behind me. The one who I always protecting him when he was little. Hoping no one would harm him. Now he is a growing up man and the man of a family. I will always remember this. Life keeps on going...anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-49392385280109478092009-02-14T08:22:00.000-08:002009-02-17T03:06:32.059-08:00Ikea Wonderland<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0zfecMobxWhoBmLNC91D30Qgq-AuBuD0K-Tse3oL2UNbNuREboIXI-t0TUC5EIeBmULPYcEPNTaTYHN16LvYgt8YIs6OWMruxx_WtPdeOCihXImG7aHvGY2lzExLPXX8ET4A70doG3hj0/s1600-h/P9010029.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302729915332410274" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 123px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 158px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0zfecMobxWhoBmLNC91D30Qgq-AuBuD0K-Tse3oL2UNbNuREboIXI-t0TUC5EIeBmULPYcEPNTaTYHN16LvYgt8YIs6OWMruxx_WtPdeOCihXImG7aHvGY2lzExLPXX8ET4A70doG3hj0/s200/P9010029.JPG" border="0" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtPdMjVatIWTfYoKXYoPgiXXkZQxU6PM5NsFELpX600U9SSa0YjumnIr1Pqs_i7Jc3KQm0wZKSKXT8MgAkssycAEr2WPqs63K36GU4oOuz4jes26kLXdWFgYSkp4njcharEyBGekHuFwh4/s1600-h/P9010024.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302802871817908306" style="FLOAT: right; 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MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 138px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 170px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHReqLKltik4StKRFrnh92D7JlFRgX-GHBw8V0idGWZ1oEIThtQmoeuL6e7xvq0yU88Z4aOZKMvBYmLJwx86Mym_3QQiNi5rqjLZ6h3zhTeA858f1GY6o_-SAyfzcXKKQLxMub0RCWR7vR/s200/P2150007.JPG" border="0" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTIIBA_am1LPAL3Gpzud-CXip1UwWhhqKfXwsMiZFCEduWYet1vPcwp9Wsi-6Vp6v5Voxn4j4T0reBgCs-sUk4y9PAuXbIYWuw35LUuUHVsHxWXuwqzHYU8EeKDyTc0flTLc1XI2Wt9lnv/s1600-h/P2150006.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302735896027627954" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 130px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 171px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTIIBA_am1LPAL3Gpzud-CXip1UwWhhqKfXwsMiZFCEduWYet1vPcwp9Wsi-6Vp6v5Voxn4j4T0reBgCs-sUk4y9PAuXbIYWuw35LUuUHVsHxWXuwqzHYU8EeKDyTc0flTLc1XI2Wt9lnv/s200/P2150006.JPG" border="0" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHReqLKltik4StKRFrnh92D7JlFRgX-GHBw8V0idGWZ1oEIThtQmoeuL6e7xvq0yU88Z4aOZKMvBYmLJwx86Mym_3QQiNi5rqjLZ6h3zhTeA858f1GY6o_-SAyfzcXKKQLxMub0RCWR7vR/s1600-h/P2150007.JPG"></a><br /><div><strong>二零零八年九月,我和福瑞德开始从奥地利搬到德国居住。所谓情侣之间开始争吵的其中一个项目即将开始。他喜欢居住在一楼,方便搬动家私。我喜欢居住在二楼以上,感觉比较幽静而且比较拥有私隐。他喜欢木材质料的古董家私。我喜欢方便实用有点印度色彩的家私。我万万没有想到,他竟然拥有一个一百五十公斤以上的长形古董饭桌。而且,还没有包括饭桌的两双脚。还有一个两层式的古董木橱,必须拆开来分开几次搬上去。刚好我们决定搬进去住的那间公寓就在三楼。</strong><br /><strong></strong><br /><strong>这次真的是天大的作弄。我们已经看过几间公寓。有些公寓离开市区和上班的地点太远,交通不方便。有些公寓里面完全残旧连墙纸被撕烂和发黄,需要自己从新粉刷过。墙上的电插头都已经被拿掉。甚至厨房里也是空荡荡。还需要自己设置厨房的用具和橱柜。当我们走进去决定要搬进去的那间公寓。感觉上清新了许多。那是一间旧式翻新的公寓。屋主将客厅和走廊的地板翻新。然后两间睡房的地上换上新的灰蓝色地毯。厨房里面已经安装好橱柜和新的电炉和烧烤炉。方便我们立刻可以使用。在厨房里面还有洗衣机和烘干机。实在太好了!!!所以我们立刻决定要租这一间公寓。因为地点非常方便。楼下附近有一间土耳其人开的杂货店。还有一间面包店,药店,牙医诊所和一些餐馆。地点就在福瑞德上班和距离市区两个地点的中间。<br /><br />我们还必须分两次搬家。一次是我们租了一辆车载满了须要的必需品。还有一张充气双人床到德国。第二次是和朋友合租一辆中型货车来搬家私。我们就开始抓狂了。因为搬不动饭桌上三楼。只能够搬到其它的小家私还有他挚爱的古董木橱。我们只好将木桌暂时搁在停车场后面的空位,还有他挚爱的Honda Hornet 600 摩哆车在一起。</strong></div></div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><strong></strong></div><br /><div><strong>从九月开始,我们就为了购买家私和筹办结婚的文件而繁忙。刚开始我们到一间家私店订购沙发。因为客厅里面冷清清。除了吃饭古董木椅,还有两个摆设饰品的铁架子和两个饭桌的脚而已。但是这间家私店的生意特别好。所以很多沙发是必须等到年尾十二月或者是明年一月的时候才可以送到我们的公寓。所以我们只好买了一套黑色的皮革沙发还是需要等候两个星期才能够送到家里来。就连家里必须申请的网路上线,也必须等候一个月批准和电话局的工作人员来按电话线。秋天快过了,冬天就快到了。好心的屋主自己做了一个面包还有将自己种的蔬菜送过来探望我们。空荡荡的公寓讲话的回音也特别响亮。</strong><br /></div></div><div><div><strong>十月尾,沙发已经送到公寓。网路的线已经装上。决定到Ikea购买一些简单的家私来暂时使用。终于买了一个吃饭用的吧台式桌子。因为家里的走廊没有那么宽阔,所以将它改短一些。还有客房里的书桌让我使用。然后就是睡房里也添加了一个大衣柜。每安装一件Ikea的家私就听见福瑞德在碎碎念。要不是零件不齐全,就是零件的大小根本和安装的洞口不符合。没想到那么著名的德国家私店也会品质差。我们还必须回头到Ikea 去更换零件,才能够将家私安装好。连续跑了几趟,福瑞德也开始有点不耐烦了。决定向我提议今年如果有经过法国探望家人的时候一定要去看一看一些古董家私。他认为古董家私比较耐用和没有安装的问题。</strong></div><div><strong></strong></div><div><strong></strong></div><br /><div><strong>但是我一想到整个公寓都是死气沉沉的深色古董家私有点像博物院。我就开始嚷着说一定要有一些色彩的家私。家里的气氛才会显得比较开心一些。但是福瑞德坚持一定要购买木材质料的古董家私。所以他立刻上网查询一些带有墨西哥色彩的木材质料的古董家私让我过目。然后我才肯妥协。因为我也不想听见他每次帮我安装Ikea的家私的时候一直在碎碎念。最后必须解决的就是饭桌的问题。因为没有人有能力将饭桌抬上三楼。</strong><br /></div><div><strong></strong></div><br /><div><strong>为了避免花费请搬运公司来服务。所以他决定到建筑材料店去购买两块长度足够十个人吃饭的木板来合成一张长方型的饭桌。其实这些木板重量也不轻,是给人们安装在厨房当桌子做饭。我和他两个人一起分开两次抬上三楼。谢天谢地我还没有怀孕,狭窄的楼梯加上长木板的重量一点也不容易搬上三楼。为了可以邀请亲朋戚友来探望我们的时候可以有饭桌一起共用。所以我们使劲能力将木板搬上三楼。</strong><strong>终于我们将饭桌安装好啦!如果要一一列清楚公寓里购买家私的状况。实在是一夜也聊不完。但是,有趣的是每添加一件家私也为家里带来了更多温暖的感觉。回想一切搬家的辛苦都是值得!!!也奉劝所有搬家的人们,千万别选择在寒冷的冬天或雨天搬家。因为我们睡房里的大衣柜就是碰巧在冬天里正好下雨天买回来!!! </strong></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-50689758818761240892009-02-08T11:31:00.000-08:002009-02-17T03:07:33.979-08:00La Declaration D'amour ~ 爱情的告白<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjo1ODcyAOcR-pgzsRyE4R-lWBNYOsD1jf2cvs1vLDwu7hYo-xnJB3iMToLD13MQJDSQMzV5nEH0S66mr2DyLBph-ZvBmxvE6S7xdHjIjCRIrkCXbDdZHnUp4HlSFNb82VRdaJ3yizagwwq/s1600-h/P8100038.JPG"></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVMQIRPEKBt2DJdHm-4y4BuC-rNSP2uX402fkzp6C_2AvUd_LBt7LzG-0FitH49P-ijE5HZEGSmBs3vEktMybm7mRVGKOCrXVtsmz1CvaymD3ns0d8_9g8anFSzMD85-A80ucsCxlGNo4B/s1600-h/DSC01466.JPG"><img style="CLEAR: both; FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px" height="240" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVMQIRPEKBt2DJdHm-4y4BuC-rNSP2uX402fkzp6C_2AvUd_LBt7LzG-0FitH49P-ijE5HZEGSmBs3vEktMybm7mRVGKOCrXVtsmz1CvaymD3ns0d8_9g8anFSzMD85-A80ucsCxlGNo4B/s400/DSC01466.JPG" width="360" border="0" /></a> </div><div></div><div><strong>二零零八年的五月,我和福瑞德两个人再次到澳门去旅行。因为六月他在中国的工作合约限期已到。结果某个晚上我开始发起女性荷尔蒙不平衡的情绪化症。就因为朋友一直在炫耀自己买了一卡拉的钻戒准备向女朋友求婚。让我顿时感到酸溜溜。一直吵着福瑞德说自己也要一枚一卡拉的钻戒。我简直是发疯了!哈哈哈!!!吵完了之后,才发现原来自己对将来的生活感到不安而情绪化。</strong></div><div><strong></strong><br /></div><div><strong>八月,正好是夏天。我们两暂时搬回去奥地利总公司那边等待新工程合约。我和福瑞德到格拉兹附近的一座山上去。 我们骑着摩哆车上山。坐到我两只脚发麻。我们将摩哆车停在山腰上。然后乘坐缆车上山顶吃午饭。没想到这座山是很多人喜欢在假日上去爬山和游玩空中飞伞。还有一些人喜欢带小孩子来游玩。而且,还可以看见一些老人家从山下爬上来。真是自惭不如他们那么健壮!!!<br /></strong></div><br /><div><strong>午饭过后我们一起到处散步。我们走到小山丘那边,有很多牛群坐在草地上吃草。然后我们在空中飞伞的起飞点附近坐着休息。 福瑞德开始拿出一个墨绿色的小盒子。原来他早已准备在这里向我求婚。但是我们的后面有几座长凳子都坐满老人家。他们在看着我们。我连戒指都还没有看见。感觉有点害羞的我立刻撒娇说不算数。因为我希望求婚的地点只有我们俩。<br /></strong></div><br /><div><strong>就这样在某个周末,他又带我到附近一座湖去散步。在无人的湖边,我终于答应他的求婚。他将半卡拉的戒指戴在我的无名指上。在阳光的闪耀下,戒指显得太耀眼了。我突然间笑了起来。 福瑞德问我为什么无端端的笑了起来呢。。。我说那是因为在嘲笑自己当初在澳门无理取闹的反应。二零零八年的十二月六日,我们在法国北部举行了简单的婚礼。二零零九年的一月二十八日,我们继续在马来西亚也办完婚礼仪式。就这样,我们两终于结婚啦!其实,钻戒的大小颗根本不重要。最重要是彼此在对方的心目中是最宝贵。愿天下人永远开心和幸福!!!</strong></div>anais_athenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00546841740423241153noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8760239646947517623.post-2639417339742018172009-02-08T00:23:00.000-08:002009-02-17T03:08:19.532-08:00~当椰浆饭遇上了可颂面包~<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmKr-oPHtLc-wRZQZhbaSeb9kKRy9SWkZrBkE5GGVsvQvdNLj15dcWsngiY69rjWHNdbDY6hyphenhyphenYsd8Qt-4cZnqAYbo_F5Abo7SBMrIbZzEi3nyd8jkZclb3DcNVY5yPXfF7LVxgbayXbklh/s1600-h/nasi_lemak2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300495015671295074" style="FLOAT: right; 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